MARRiage!!?
Q. After just a few years of marriage, filled with constant arguments, a young man and his wife decided the only way to save their marriage was to try counseling. They had been at each other's throat for some time and felt that this was their last straw. When they arrived at the counselor's office, the counselor jumped right in and opened the floor for discussion. "What seems to be the problem?" Immediately, the husband held his long face down without anything to say. On the other hand, the wife began talking 90 miles an hour describing all the wrongs within their marriage. After 5...10...15 minutes of listening to the wife, the counselor went over to her, picked her up by her shoulders, kissed her passionately for several minutes, and… [cont.]
Asked by simone m - Fri Apr 25 11:13:43 2008 - - 6 Answers - 0 Comments

A. hahahaha very funny!!!
Answered by LaLaLanding - Fri Apr 25 11:22:50 2008

What is a paper marriage and Cambodian arranged marriages?
Q. A friend of mine is in an arranged marriage and he says its a paper marriage. My friends and I can only think it's just getting the papers saying you're married no ceremony. He says a paper marriage is a fake marriage so she can get citizenship. I read online even if they get married she still has to go through everything to get citizenship here in the US. She is from Cambodia. He also doesn't want to get married but says it's to late in the engagement and Cambodians don't like it when you break them so he has to marry then divorce. Is any of this true?
Asked by Nicole - Sun Oct 4 19:51:56 2009 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. He is legally married!! No culture likes it when you break engagements, but for the most part divorce is frowned on about 1000% more than breaking off an engagement. Sorry.
Answered by bugfree - Thu Oct 8 13:12:30 2009

Is marriage a goal for some people even in unhappy marriages?
Q. Some people stay in unhappy marriages even though they don't like the other person. Is marriage a goal for these people even if it compromises their own happiness?
Asked by Jaime - Sat May 2 05:41:33 2009 - - 11 Answers - 2 Comments

A. Sad to say a lot of people stay for all of the wrong reasons and they are in a comfort zone even if it is not the best thing for them and they end up spending a lifetime in a lie..but some get the strength to walk away and realize that it is ok to start over..
Answered by mochabiznswmn - Sat May 2 06:54:12 2009

How is a marriage certificate of a foreign country translated to a Canadian marriage certificate?
Q. What happens to a marriage certificate of a foreign country when it is accepted in Canada. (For example, a Canadian citizen who gets married outside of Canada and then sponsor's his wife to come to Canada) Is a prenuptial aggrement made after immigration, or whatever the original marriage certificate says regarding prenup is carried over to Canada?
Asked by Muhammed - Sun Jun 22 16:12:12 2008 - - 1 Answers - 1 Comments

A. A prenup is NOT the marriage cert. I dont know if your prenup will still be legal in Canada. You may need to see a lawyer and find out if it is still legal or if you need to make a new one. But cic only want to see the marriage cert. Prenups are of no importance to them.
Answered by Francesca Thomas - Sun Jun 22 21:36:54 2008

What place does marriage have in the next decade?
Q. Parenting without marriage appears to have become acceptable, as has participating in sexual liberties free from stigmas of past generations. Society functions, and families are still families. What purpose, then, does marriage serve now? Grit, can you not commit without marriage? Seriously.
Asked by moontrikle - Tue Mar 4 20:31:21 2008 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Marriage is an antiquated notion. To look at the role of marriage in the next decade you should examine the roots of marriage in history. It used to be that marriage was about exchanging woman as property - dowry/betrothals - or as political/social manouvering. In some parts of the world this is still true. Marriage has been losing clout over the last century as women have gotten more rights and equality and therefore lost the status of 'property.' In Australia there are commonlaw protections for 'de facto' couples (living together for more than 12 months) which afford a lot of the legal protections of a married couple - in that sense it is legally outdated and barring the religious beliefs - socially outdated as well. As the number of… [cont.]
Answered by John T - Tue Mar 4 22:05:27 2008

How does the Defense of Marriage Act of 1996 not violate the constitution?
Q. In the defense of marriage act, it says: No state (or other political subdivision within the United States) needs to treat a relationship between persons of the same sex as a marriage, even if the relationship is considered a marriage in another state. But the constitution says that legal agreements or arrangements made in other states must be recognized in other states. So how is this legal?
Asked by Cass - Thu Jul 16 18:27:54 2009 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Because the federal government also controls commerce between the states (which is in the Constitution or implied at least) through an early Supreme Court case called Gibbons V. Ogden and can make laws that regulate said commerce between the states. Notice you said it yourself the law says nothing about marriage within a state by residents of that state so the commerce clause does not apply
Answered by satcomgrunt - Thu Jul 16 18:37:09 2009

How does the anti-gay marriage crowd feel about straight couples marrying in civil ceremonies?
Q. I've heard some of the anti-gay marriage folks here argue that gays should have civil unions, but they shouldn't be allowed to marry, because of the religious ramifications of marriage. Does marriage always have a religious undertone, though? After all, there are plenty of straight couples who get married in civil ceremonies.
Asked by tangerine - Tue Apr 28 14:58:45 2009 - - 10 Answers - 1 Comments

A. I was married in a civil ceremony. I do not follow a religion. If they were logically consistent, they would be opposed to it, but the issue is more about bigotry, control, and obedience more than it is about being reasonable.
Answered by JC - Tue Apr 28 15:03:26 2009

How and where to register my marriage with government using my church marriage certificate in mumbai?
Q. How and where to register my marriage with government using my church marriage certificate from kerala church,but now iam residing in navi mumbai or in mumbai for visa and immigration purpose. Please advice me for the steps.
Asked by Shijan - Thu Aug 20 21:34:43 2009 - - 1 Answers - 2 Comments

A. Yoy can get your marriage registered with the Office of the Sub Registrar in Navi Mumbai. Sub-Registrar / Administrative Officer, Mumbai District Old Custom House, Fort, Mumbai-400 023 Mumbai 22 22630742 You will fill the prescribed form, duly signed by you, your wife and witnessed by 3 people. You will attach your permanent address and present address proof, copy of marriage certificate issued by Church, 2 photographs showing your marriage. Fee will be around Rs.100/-. Marriage certificate will be issued the same day. No hassles. Best wishes for a happy married life.
Answered by M. Shankar - Fri Aug 21 01:01:21 2009

How can I get a legal marriage certificate from a registrar based on a temple marriage certificate ?
Q. How can I get a legal marriage certificate from a registrar based on a temple marriage certificate without my husband being present ?
Asked by UNNI - Fri Aug 28 06:23:30 2009 - - 3 Answers - 0 Comments

A. without your spouse's presencee, i think not. but you might want to talk to the registrar of marriages. not too sure, but maybe anaffidavitt from yourspouseemightt help.
Answered by Jakes - Sat Aug 29 01:17:11 2009

Opponents of gay marriage: Should we outlaw divorce since it is currently the biggest threat to marriage?
Q. If the concern over gay marriage is the idea that it will threaten marriage or the family, it would make sense to outlaw the biggest threat there is to families and marriage: divorce. If we outlaw divorce, it should show people how sacred marriage is don t you think?
Asked by CuriousObserver - Wed Nov 19 15:06:33 2008 - - 13 Answers - 3 Comments

A. It follows the same logic, but good luck getting any of these bigots to understand that.
Answered by Ghengis - Wed Nov 19 15:13:34 2008

Would a marriage of two people of different cultures could actually work out ?
Q. I'm very curious about this, if you married someone who is from a different race then you, would it be able to actually work out. Because i have this friend she is chinese and i'm vietnamese we both been really good friends with each other, we do stuff like study together and hangout and make youtube videos. But would it ever be possible for us to have a relationship together ? It would really cool if i could start a relationship or even marriage with her. Do you think it's actually possible ?
Asked by Kenneth - Fri Sep 18 15:40:02 2009 - - 12 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Everything is possible what feels good! Go for it if you like her! Differences attract a lot on a short run. Because you are both young you will be able to CREATE your own culture, something not exactly like hers but not anymore yours. That is specific for mixed marriages who live happy for many years together. Well known fact: children of "mixed blood" come absolutely beautiful!
Answered by RC - Sun Sep 20 08:40:13 2009

How do I go about finding a marriage license copy?
Q. I have heard that you can easily find a marriage license copy online and without having to pay a fee. Is this true? I would love to get a copy of my deceased parents' marriage license if I can. It would be a nice thing to frame and to keep on the wall to remember them by. So, can you find copies of marriage licenses online or is this just an urban myth?
Asked by Denise - Mon Sep 28 01:19:39 2009 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. It's a myth my friend. Unfortunately, marriage licenses are not considered public records and you definitely cannot see any public records for free online. The minions who put the information into the databases and the companies who look the stuff up have to get paid somehow, right? But, you can access marriage records online at many public records sites. A reputable one is www.recordssitereviews.co m/marriage_records.php. A marriage record will give you enough information to show that a marriage took place, but is not the actual marriage license. Before you the site can look up your desired record, you will need to input some vital information. The bride's maiden name, the groom's name, the city, county, and/or state where the… [cont.]
Answered by Leslie - Mon Sep 28 01:37:41 2009

What are the odds that a modern marriage that lasts 50 years has two completely faithful people?
Q. I'm not talking people from the 1920s, but those who wed in like the 1960s and up. I've looked at a lot of marriages as a cop and PI and been in three marriages myself and would have to say any marriage that lasts 50 years has a 100% chance at least one party cheated. Unless they're both really deformed.
Asked by Eddie Cacciatore, Private Eye - Wed Nov 5 22:45:30 2008 - - 12 Answers - 1 Comments

A. Well Eddie, I am hoping to make 50 have made 31 in Dec, We are not deformed but we are a little crazy, that should count. Those are some sad stats. Besides that a lot of marriages are not all marriages and you must be looking into them because of some problem or other. I would guess it isn't just about being a student of human nature that makes you watch married people.. so yeah there are marriages like that, in your line of work you will just be seeing the worst of the lot. I never met a person that hired a PI for no reason, or call the cops either. You are getting jaded, what a bummer.
Answered by happygirl - Thu Nov 6 00:52:28 2008

What would happen if Marriage was treated like a business transaction?
Q. I would say if a priest, rabbi or iman wanted to marry two women and call it a marriage that was their right. Thus, marriage is not religions it is a product bought and sold like anything else. What do y'all think?
Asked by bar9018 - Sat Nov 15 01:38:21 2008 - - 6 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Hi Guy, You're correct. In the eyes of the state, marriage is a "contract" like any other transaction. The fact that it is a contract is what enables them to regulate it. Long before some states legalized gay marriages, some churches performed marriages among gays and lesbians. That's fine. Freedom of religion allows them to believe whatever they want to believe. But that belief does not have the force of law unless the state signs off on the legality of the transaction. Your assessment is therefore spot-on. Whatever romantics may say, in the eyes of the law, marriage is a contract like any other business transcation. Cheers, mate.
Answered by Jack - Sat Nov 15 01:49:43 2008

When the institution of marriage goes down the tube, do men lose power?
Q. In other words, when women independently decide to have babies out of wedlock and remain single, do men lose out the most? Another way to put it is, in the traditional marriage, are men or women the ultimate keyholders to marriage?
Asked by anonymous - Sat Jul 26 18:22:11 2008 - - 12 Answers - 0 Comments

A. we men have no power, the woman always wants to hear ..."yes dear", right away dear, yes your always right dear...the only time a man has any say on anything ..is when he lives alone...and yes I am married {30 years} I am 50 years old,...and my wife knows how I think ...any man that says that he is the boss of his house is a lire
Answered by mark22059 - Sun Jul 27 15:33:28 2008

How are grants effected after marriage and is there a way to avoid this?
Q. Alright so I'm military and my boyfriend is a civilian. He has a grant and we want to get married but don't want to affect his grant money. How would marriage change this and is there some way to get around this or possibly a way into marriage where we can keep our finances somewhat separate. He still lives with his parents and is going to school as of right now. We want to get married but also want him to get all of his grant money.
Asked by Ninerznina - Thu Oct 2 00:22:01 2008 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Surely he had to sign a contract to get his money. Read that contract. If it is not understandable to you, you may need to have a lawyer read it for you.
Answered by Ten Kenorland - Fri Oct 3 19:37:43 2008

What were the dynamics of marriage in the 19th century?
Q. I know that women had few legal rights but what kind of unofficial roles did women and men have in marriage. Did women really obey their husbands? Did husbands really command their wives? Was it very different from modern marriages or essentially similar?
Asked by Cybele - Sat Mar 8 23:14:59 2008 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I've had the interesting experience of knowing some Middle Eastern Muslims from Lebanon. Now remember, this culture, supposedly the women are second class citizens, etc., and it looks that way in public for the most part. However, back at home, the woman is boss. I think that no matter what the "official" legal and/or cultural rights assigned to women are, they have, throughout history, known how to control their men, by either nagging, cutting them off from sex, giving them bad food, etc. I think that the truth is, in this "enlightened feminist age" more women are abused by men, than they were back then, and this is especially true in inner cities, where the family unit has been devalued by the welfare check, so men and women no longer… [cont.]
Answered by mande - Sat Mar 8 23:22:57 2008

What encourages people to wait until marriage to have sex?
Q. There are plenty of people who decide to wait to have sex with their partners until marriage and I just don't understand the reasons. If people are in a close-caring relationship, what is the point of waiting until after you have made a strong commitment, such as marriage, to express it?
Asked by pageturner1988 - Sat Dec 13 22:19:16 2008 - - 43 Answers - 0 Comments

A. uh . . . the Bible.
Answered by Don't Bother Me - Sat Dec 13 22:21:21 2008

How can I get my pastor to support traditional marriage?
Q. My pastor is a fundamentalist Baptist preacher. He's a big believer in traditional marriage when it comes to other people, but a huge hypocrite when it comes to himself. case in point: My pastor has an 11-year-old daughter. She has a perfect frame for lifting heavy loads and plowing fields. A 74-year-old member of our church is widowed and quite wealthy. He offered to purchase my pastor's daughter as a slave, and also for breeding purposes. But instead of supporting traditional marriage, my pastor called the police on this poor old man. How can I get my pastor to support traditional marriage as it was practiced in biblical times?
Asked by Ed Correli - Thu Jul 2 14:01:18 2009 - - 14 Answers - 0 Comments

A. It seems innocent enough to issue snide remarks, but the harm is not to others, it is to oneself. Although one is perhaps not aware of the Law of Karma, it, like death, does not depend upon ones awareness of it to operate. Every thought, and certainly every statement one makes that is harmful to another is marked upon some MINDLine within ones MIND realm, and that harm must be visited upon oneself at some point. Either in this lifetime or another. The Law of Karma is an Absolute Law. No one eludes it and every Soul is subject to it. A word to the wise is sufficient... and if not wise, take the hint anyway. Peace
Answered by docjp - Thu Jul 2 14:14:37 2009

How many gay marriage ceremonies have been performed in Mass in Catholic Churches?
Q. It seems like the only thing anyone can say in opposition to gay marraige is that it would force churches to perform those ceremonies. OK, we have a great test to see if that's actually an issue. 1. Mass legalized gay marriage. 2. Catholic church is opposed to gay mariage 3. How many gay marraiges have been forced on the Catholic Church in Mass? That's Massachusetts...not the act of Mass Scroll down a little and you see this exact claim. This is about the 10th time I've seen it on here... It can't possibly happen RLP as everyone else on here knows. Churches can marry whoever they want and sure as heck can have denominational limits on who they marry. The answer is ZERO of course.
Asked by C.S. - Mon Feb 16 11:23:49 2009 - - 6 Answers - 1 Comments

A. None that I have heard about but I also have never heard anyone claim that churches would be forced to do anything either..
Answered by Brian - Mon Feb 16 11:29:26 2009